TJ Gong

Walking With Him Until I Am Not

Myth or Fact?

In his article I Wanna Pump You Up Mr. Osten clarifies some misleading weight-lifting myths, such as working out everyday, weight lifting stunting a youth’s growth. He instead provides readers with some pointers that help people receive the best result from weight-lifting.

“It’s important to distinguish weight-lifting facts from myths,” said Mr. Osten as he is in an attempt to persuades his reader into weight-lifting by bringing forth the myths and facts. There are often misunderstandings or misconceptions about different areas of our lives. The news of gossips and rumors and slanders can be heard everywhere. We could be perplexed at what is right and wrong. When was the last time that you were misunderstood or slandered? How did you feel? How did you cope with that misunderstanding or slander?

96 responses to “Myth or Fact?”

  1. A9727139 張妤瑄 Avatar
    A9727139 張妤瑄

    umm…. It’s about last month.My friend can’t understood what the “point” I was going to tell her. I felt disappointed.However,I did my utmost to tell her the point I believe. If she can’t understand,I just let her go. Forgive about it. Maybe one day she will realize what am I talking today.I will be myself if I am misunderstood.

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  2. a9927006 羅穎 Avatar
    a9927006 羅穎

    When I just got into senior high,my grade was so bad.I always been the last in tha big test that made so upset.Since that time , I decide to study more harder and pay more patient on my school work.I told myself that I need to be at least 10 in the class.I changed my study habit and begin to prepare the test before two weeks.Time and time again,my effort eventually pay work.My grade was being better as soon as possible.But the classmates didn’t see my effort,thy begain to talk that I was cheat on the test.So my grades can be excellent.I felt so terrible that whether I how much time I paid it was not work.But I try to think in the other side,I didn’t pay the effort for those people who discuss me,I just need to work for meslf.

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  3. A9927031陳亭君 Avatar
    A9927031陳亭君

    When I was in high school. I and my mom often have an argument. Because I always feit that she couldn’t understand my thought. But sometimes I would feel sorry to my mom. Because it was very impolite to argue with my parents. So I would say sorry to my mom after the argument.

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  4. A9927095 阮宜慧 Avatar
    A9927095 阮宜慧

    I had been misunderstanding my friend who is boy as a gay.Because he is always thoughtful and has a high pitch of voice. One day,I asked him seriously about which sex does he like. He said”Woman of course.” And he did not talk to me that day. I was so sorry to him. Then,I apologized to him and bought him a drink.

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  5. A9927102 陳國揚 Avatar
    A9927102 陳國揚

    When I was a senior high school student,my friend misunderstood what I wanted to told him.He was used to smoking,and I advised he should quit smoking,but he very stubborn.He misunderstood my meaning,and I felt very upset and disappointed.
    Than I did not do anything,I just let him go,and I will never make a friend with him.

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  6. A9927001 楊維倫 Avatar
    A9927001 楊維倫

    When I was a senior high school student, my father often misunderstood me. I told him that I was studying at school ,but he always felt that I played outside everyday. My father is a self-centered and serious person.He never communicated with each other. As a result,my childhood was miserable. I don’t have any idea to solve this problem.

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  7. A9927079黃紫苓 Avatar
    A9927079黃紫苓

    When I was in high school, my parents often understood me.They thought I did not pay enough attention on my studies so that I could not get high score.Then, I tried to communicate with them and tell them I just need much time to understand what teachers theach.Finally, they saw the progress I made and didn’t blame me on my studies.

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  8. A9927083張可萱 Avatar
    A9927083張可萱

    My grandma has a bad memory,she always forget where she putting the money and mistaking someone stolen her purse.Last Chinese New Year,my family went ot my grandma’s house.My mom asked me to help my grandma to clean her room,I didn’t refuse.But after I finished the cleaning,my grandma accused me that I stole her money ! What a shame ! I just cleaned her room for filial piety ! Since then, I never enter grandma’s room.Never.

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  9. A9927103鍾數卿 Avatar
    A9927103鍾數卿

    I misunderstood my high school best friend, I think she was cold and indifferent to me. At that time, I was thinking: I did not do anything to make her unhappy, why does she ignore me? From then on I do not talk to her, she seemed to find this point, but also to take with me the same action. everyone around us have found this, I answered them: I am not angry, she first ignored me. Some people may tell her I said, she to me and says: I did not ignore you, but I’m not feeling well recently, and I just want to have a good rest! I heard her explanation, suddenly found myself very naive, not ask reason to temper his sulk. Later, when I feel a little uncomfortable, I must clear the first time to ask why.

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  10. A9927045 Avatar
    A9927045

    The latest time that I been misunderstand was when I was in eleven grade .That time my friend thought hat I am too stingy always care about only if price expensive or not or consider the lower price can be the better choice.However, they thought that I should be more generous to friends not just care the money .I am not so sure that whether being is the main reason that they stay away from me.Maybe I should tell them that I am not so rich as they do.This could be the reason why I wany to earn more money.After all,this incident have past already ,people should look forward in future.

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  11. A9927005佘孟屏 Avatar
    A9927005佘孟屏

    When I was junior high school student, I had two best friends.We kept together until in third grades.Because they believed someone’s rumor,they didn’t believe me.
    Someone said I spoke bad words behind them.But I didn’t say anything,I was very sad.I told myself trust your ownself and everything will be ok.Before we graduated, my best friends apologized to me.They said they misunderstood to me.After that,we get better until now.

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  12. A9927065沈則妤 Avatar
    A9927065沈則妤

    When I was junonr high school gaade 3 student, I misunderstand my boyfriend, because on that time, he said that he wanted to break up with me, I was very sad and even guess that wheather he had another girl friend or not, I was very angry to slap him. After two months, I met him at the supermarket, he told that the reasons, on that time his mom got a big sick and he had to take care of her, so he didn’t have any time to stay wtih me, he had to work and study hard, I was very sorry to him, because I doubted that he had another girldfrind and wanted to abandon me, now I forgive him and we also be my best frind .

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  13. A9927019 蔡幸穎 Avatar
    A9927019 蔡幸穎

    When I was in senior high school, I was been misunderstood by my friends. They thought I had told to teacher that they was cheating on quiz, but I didn’t said anything about this! Finally, they put some disgusting substance on my desk and chair, including their spit….At that time, I could not help but to cry loudly. After then, we had never talk to each other until we met again at our class’ reunion. In fact, I am afraid to see them again, but I chose to face the bad memory. This experience make me a calm girl.

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  14. A9927107陳鈺芳 Avatar
    A9927107陳鈺芳

    The most imprssed thing I was misunderstood is when I wasn senior high school student ,I always studied at library everynight ,but my parents always thought I was dating with boy.
    It hurt me deeply cause it seem that they didn’t belieive me at all.
    I have try to explain ,but I still don’t know what they thought about this till now. All I can do is believe they are trust me.

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  15. A9927106廖庭瑄 Avatar
    A9927106廖庭瑄

    I remember I had been misunderstood by my friend when I was in senior high.My friend didn’t talk to me for about two weeks.I forget the reason that we argued for but both we did not want to apologize to each other.Fortunately,we still are friend now.I think this is very important to realize each other and avoid any argument.

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  16. a9927084 周曉汶 Avatar
    a9927084 周曉汶

    I forgot when was the last time I was misuderstood,but I remember a dream which I was misuderstood. I didn’t know what had happened but I knew what I had done was not what they thought.I kept explaining to about 40 pepole.But they didn’t believe me anyway. At first,I was desperate and didn’know how to change the situation.I was scolded by all. In the end,I calmed down,and thought if they don’t believe me,just let them go beacuse I really had not done. I decided not to spent times on dealing with those people,even though I might have to continue to live in this environment.

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  17. A9927108 陳怡真 Avatar
    A9927108 陳怡真

    Children are always believe everything, including everyone. When I was an schoolgirl, I was misunderstood by my teacher, she thought that I lied to her why I was late for school. I was so sad, intolerable and wounded. From that time, I was always scared when the teacher turned up, because she doesn’t care how I fell, even though I wasn’t wrong, even though the teacher knew the truth later.

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  18. A9727098陳源泓 Avatar
    A9727098陳源泓

    The event was happened on last month. I am a part time of hot pot shop. On that day, there was a customer asked to me add a plateful of taros I though what he need was ‘fish head’, because in Chinese, these two things are pronounce to the same sound. This mistake not only funny but also stupid. I made an apology to him and he didn’t blamed on me. However, I still had to faced the blamed on my boss.

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  19. A9927039李孟蓁 Avatar
    A9927039李孟蓁

    When I was in junior high school, I was misunderstood by my classmates. Most of them cheated on the biology test in order to pass the test. However, our homeroom teacher found that and shouted at them. Some classmates said that it was I that told the teacher the truth because I was one of the few classmates who didn’t cheat on the test. When I heard this, I felt shocked and hurt. But afterward I tried to change my mind and not to take other’s words too seriously since I didn’t do it.

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  20. A9927046張瀞云 Avatar
    A9927046張瀞云

    Being misunderstood is inevitable,so we should cope with it.When I was in senior high school,I always got bad grades in my math.My parents thougt I didn’t do my best,and I’m very frustrated about it.But afterwards,they finally tolerant to it.People shoud always think thrice before you act,because misunderstood not only cause a conflict but also destroy the relationship.

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  21. A9927033林子豪 Avatar
    A9927033林子豪

    when i was in junior high.my parents always doubt that i didn’t work hard on my studies.actually,it’s not.i back to home from school at ten every night.i also studied at school on weekends.what they saw is i played computer games in my free time.i think parents always think that their children needs to study more.

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  22. A9927032彭子庭 Avatar
    A9927032彭子庭

    When I was the third grades of senior high school, there was a girl slander me. She said that I was impolite, and judged about my appearance. But I didn’t know her! She was just a student next to my classroom. We never talk or some interact at school. I was so surprised and sad when I heard the judgment from my friend. I felt down, I kept thinking am I really annoying? Why a stranger will hate me? After few days, I decided to let it go. It was because she didn’t know me, she misunderstood me.

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  23. A9827136王妤文 Avatar
    A9827136王妤文

    I remember the time when I was in junior high, onec in the cram school, my classmate misled that I push her pearl milk tea down, but instead of explain that was not my fault, I was annoyed and yell at her. Ever since that upleasant quarrel, she never talk to me and always stared at me with despise. this experience give me a lesson no matter what I encounter something that disadvantaged to me or something misleading, I should try to calm down and come up with a method to solve it. Although it’s very pity that I never give her an apology, this abject experience will always keep in my mind .

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  24. 潘暄媃 A9927069 Avatar
    潘暄媃 A9927069

    When I was in senior high school, I was misunderstood by my parents. I stay at school studying everynight ,but my parents thought I was dating with my friends.Their doubt make me felt sad.Afterward,I communicate with my parent. Finally,they are willing to believe me. However I think I would be stay at home to study and my parents aren’t doubt me again.

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  25. 潘暄媃 A9927069 Avatar
    潘暄媃 A9927069

    When I was in senior high school, I was misunderstood by my parents.I stay at school to study everynight ,but my parents thought I was dating with my friends. Their doubts make me sad.Afterward,I communicate with my parents and they willing to beileve me finally.

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  26. A9927036黃匯淳 Avatar
    A9927036黃匯淳

    Friends usually joke with one another because it’s interesting to do so. But sometimes the definition of joke may be different from one to the other. Moreover, the consepuence of joke might lead to big problem. I experienced once when I was in senior high school. I made fun of my best friend unintentionally; nevertheless, she took it seriously that she even cried. After discussing, I apologized to her even though I didn’t think it was total my fault. I think the best way to solve misunderstanding is discussion.

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  27. A9927049劉庭安 Avatar
    A9927049劉庭安

    I think I am a talkative person. I like to chat with people, so it will has some misunderstandings when I talk too fast and don’t think much carefully. Because I know I have that problem, I usually tell the person who I chat with that if I say something that you don’t know what I’m talking about or you don’t agree with that, just tell me and I will explain it. I don’t want people misunderstand me. Therefore, if people tell me that I have something wrong and give me a chance to explain it, I will be very thankful and we won’t misunderstand each other.

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  28. A9927028 鍾雅婷 Avatar
    A9927028 鍾雅婷

    The last time was in my high school life. From grade 10, there was one girl , she kept saying ill behind my back and spread the rumors. And I regarded her as my “best” friends. That was one of my best friends told me that she did this that I found out. I didnt know where went wrong between me and she. But clearly I’ve learned. I was struggled in these bad rumors. And tried to do something stupid to end my life. Because I think it can be over anyway. But luckily , my friends and teachers helped me. And now, I’ve grown up. I know what is right and wrong. I wont do such a thing again. But somehow I just dont trust people like I used to.

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  29. A9927112游于萱 Avatar
    A9927112游于萱

    One day,I found that half pack of my candy which my friends gave me for the christmas was disappeared.I strongly believe that my brother ate my candy.However,
    it is my grandpa who ate my candy at midnight.I am ashamed of myself for I misunderstood my brother without any retionality.He was very angry,and refused to talk to me for almost three days.But,this is all my fault.I need to accept all the result caused by myself and beg for forgiving.Thanks for his kind,he forgave me in the end.By this experience,I leared something from it.

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  30. A9927092 吳宜軒 Avatar
    A9927092 吳宜軒

    When I was in junior high, I had a very good friend, Jack.
    Almost everyday I shared my feelings with him.
    Why not? He’s my good friend.
    One day our classmates started a rumor, it said that Jack and I had fall in love, but actually we didn’t, of course!
    When I heard the rumor, I felt very sad.
    But I wasn’t afraid of the rediculous rumor but worried about losing Jack, who was my intimate friend.
    After I asked Jack of his feeling, he said it’s not an interference to our friendship.
    And I was so thankful about he told me that.
    Now I grow up so I will laugh out loud when thinking of this.
    It’s so childish, not only the boys who depressed the rumor but also myself.
    How about Jack?
    We are still close friends now, and it is the truth what will prolong for…… maybe more than ten years.

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  31. A9927058陳思綺 Avatar
    A9927058陳思綺

    When I am in the senior high school, I have had a best friend. We were very close and did not have any secret between each other. But one day I found that she slandered me behind closed doors. She said that I always told her secrets to another girl that we know. I tried to tell her that I did not tell the girl any of her secrets. But then I detected that she told that girl some of my secrets. And the fact was that I did not do anything but she slandered that I betrayed her as if that was the truth. I were exetremely disappointed and got hurt at that time. And her behavior tell me a lesson that every person need a privacy even though that person is your best friend. And I will keep it in my mind.

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  32. A9927097謝明傑 Avatar
    A9927097謝明傑

    It was very long time ago. When I was a elementary student. I was playing baseball with my calssmates in our school campus. One of us hit a foulball and broken glasses on the wall.And the teacher came,shouted at me.She Said”I will tell this to your mon” And she left without listen my explain.That was the worst teacher i ever met before .What a big misunderstand it was.

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  33. A9927004王姵雯 Avatar
    A9927004王姵雯

    I was always misunderstood by my friends and my family because of the tone of my speaking. Every one of them say that if they don’t focus on my expression on my face, and they would misunderstand that I was angry with them. Actually, I don’t want to cope with that although the fact is that I was not angry with them. To me, it is doesn’t matter if someone have misconception with me because it is always waste time on explaination. As a proverb goes:” Never explain yourself because your friends don’t need it and you enemy won’t believe it “

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  34. A9927069 潘暄媃 Avatar
    A9927069 潘暄媃

    When I was in senior high school, I was misunderstood by my parents.I stay at school to study everynight ,but my parents thought I was dating with my friends. Their doubts make me sad.Afterward,I communicate with my parents and they willing to beileve me finally!

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  35. A9927029 Avatar
    A9927029

    I always wear a serious face and it looks like a poker face.That’s because I don’t like to smile all the time,many people feel that I am a serious person when we are not familiar with each other.actually,I am a easygoing and interesting person.

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  36. A9927069 Avatar
    A9927069

    When I was in senior high school, I was misunderstood by my parents.I stay at school to study everynight ,but my parents thought I was dating with my friends. Their doubts make me sad.Afterward,I communicate with my parents and they willing to beileve me finally..

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  37. A9927011翁意珊 Avatar
    A9927011翁意珊

    When I was junior high school,there was a report,and I had to work together with my classmates,at that time,we usually go out and talk on the phone for the report,but my mom misunderstood me that I had a boyfriend,I told her,she still doubted me,till the report had done,I take it to my mom let her take a look,she finally believe me!

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  38. A9927090 Avatar
    A9927090

    I misunderstood my best friend when I was a senior high school student. Some day he was indifferent to me suddenly. He didn’t talk to me and even pretended not to see me when he encountered me at school. I didn’t know why he ignored me. I was very sad and felt angry at that time. Later, we had not talked to each other for two weeks. One day, I tried to talk to him and asked him why he ignored me then. He said he didn’t angry at me. He only wanted to calm down and said sorry to me. I told him that he was my best friend and I hoped that we could be good friends as before. If you had problems, you would tell me first. So we become the same as before.

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  39. A9927066黃右宜 Avatar
    A9927066黃右宜

    Being misunderstood is very terrible,I don’t want to be misunderstood or misunderstand someone especially by my friends or my family. I remembered that I was misunderstood by my friend. Although I was too angry to believe that she would misunderstand to me, I didn’t want to lose my friend. As a result, I explained to her again and again. At the beginning, she didn’t want to listen to me. But I insisted on explaining to her and I nerver gave up. Finally, she believed me after she was calm down and thought over and over. So, we are still good friend now. I am glad that I insist on explaining to her, otherwise I will lose a good friend maybe.

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  40. A9927022 Viola Lin 林思吟 Avatar
    A9927022 Viola Lin 林思吟

    Well, I guess I don’t have anything to say about “misunderstand.” Of course I had these kind of experiences before, but those experiences are all not big enough to let me keep them in mind.
    But I think the best way to solve the problem like this is: discuss the problem face to face, express how you feel, and try to stand in other’s shoes.

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  41. A9927003 吳佳凌 Avatar
    A9927003 吳佳凌

    When I was in high school, my parents often understood me. My school asked us to stay at school until 8:15. I felt very tired every day so when I got home I always in my room and took a break. But my parents thought I was tired because I hung out with my friends and didn’t study at all. I explained that I worked hard at school every day not playing outside every day. They finally considered me and we stopped fighting.

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  42. A9927027梁心怡 Avatar
    A9927027梁心怡

    Until now I still remember about that experience.When I was third grade in Junior High School,I have a good friend,but just that day,just because those words,he thinks that I was angry about him,since that day,he didn’t talk to me anymore.At the beginng I think it was nothing,but it continued mouths.Then we still can’t get ease like before until senior high school,and it me to talk him first! I think communication is one way to solve the misunderstanding.

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  43. A9927060蕭妤庭 Avatar
    A9927060蕭妤庭

    When I was in senior high school, some classmates thought I got angry easily. But sometimes I just do not want to chatted with them they thought I was angry. So I explained to them. At first I was very upset that they way they thought of me. But when I explained to them that they said sorry to me. I felt that everything can be solved as we explain to them.

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  44. A9721150 陳培軍 Avatar
    A9721150 陳培軍

    Actually, I don’t care about to being misunderstood. I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about meself for anyone. If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend. Two week ago, in my Cost Accounting class. The teacher demands us to computed some question. I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college. I knew how to got the answer quickly.
    I was done with the question, so I close my eyes to took some rest. At the moment, I felt something closed to me. When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “if you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone. she is aimed me. but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood. Then, I didn’t have not to say anything, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  45. A9721150 陳培軍 Avatar
    A9721150 陳培軍

    Actually, I don’t care about to being misunderstood. I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about meself for anyone. If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend. Two week ago, in my Cost Accounting class. The teacher demands us to computed some question. I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college. I knew how to got the answer quickly.
    I was done with the question, so I close my eyes to took some rest. At the moment, I felt something closed to me. When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “if you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone. she is aimed me. but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood. Then, I say nothing, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  46. A9721150 陳培軍 Avatar
    A9721150 陳培軍

    Actually, I don’t care about to being misunderstood.
    I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about meself for anyone.
    If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend.
    Two week ago, in my Cost Accounting class.
    The teacher demands us to computed some question.
    I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college.
    I knew how to got the answer quickly.
    I was done with the question, so I close my eyes to took some rest.
    At the moment, I felt something closed to me.
    When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “if you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone.
    she is aimed me.
    but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood.
    Then, I say nothing, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  47. A9721150 陳培軍 Avatar
    A9721150 陳培軍

    Actually, I don’t care about to being misunderstood. I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about meself for anyone. If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend. Two week ago, in my Cost Accounting class. The teacher demands us to computed some question. I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college. I knew how to got the answer quickly. I was done with the question in two minutes, so I close my eyes to took some rest. At the moment, I felt something closed to me. When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “if you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone. she is aimed me. but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood. Then, I say nothing, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  48. A9721150 陳培軍 Avatar
    A9721150 陳培軍

    Actually, I don’t care about to being misunderstood. I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about meself for anyone. If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend. Two week ago, in my Cost Accounting class. The teacher demands us to computed some question. I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college. I knew how to got the answer quickly. I was done with the question in two minutes, so I close my eyes to took some rest. At the moment, I felt something closed to me. When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “if you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone. she is aimed me. but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood. Then, I say nothing, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  49. A9927030黃湘媛 Avatar
    A9927030黃湘媛

    When I was little, my mother always buying some snacks and cookies.my sister and I always run the first to eat them.Once , my mother want to eat some cookies, then she found that the cookies were nothing left at all! she quickly looked at me and said:you should left even one cookie for me.At that time i felt confuse, the last cookie was not eaten by me!!so i tought my mother the cookie was not eaten by me.
    them we start to ask my sister was she eat the last one cookie, she said that was not her. and in the end
    the answer who eat the last one cookie was my father .
    so my mother said sorry to me.

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  50. A9927043歐陽瑄 Avatar
    A9927043歐陽瑄

    when I was a junior high student,I had a good friend.We always shared our secrets with each other.Once I thought she told someone my secret. I didn’t find out the truth and I blamed her immediatly.After that, I found out that she didn’t do anything. I misunderstood her. I felt so sorry. Fortunately,she has forgiven me.

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  51. A9721150 Avatar
    A9721150

    Actually, I don’t care about being misunderstood. I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about myself for anyone. If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend. Two week ago, in my cost accounting class. The teacher demands us to computed some question. Cause I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college. I knew how to got the answer quickly. I was done with the question in two minutes. I think “Maybe I can take some rest now”,so i closed my eyes. At the moment, I felt something closed to me. When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “if you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone. she is aimed me. but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood. Then, I say nothing, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  52. A9927063陳盈竹 Avatar
    A9927063陳盈竹

    My mother often tells me about what she heard from her colleagues. Most of the messages are rumors, and it makes me feel ridiculous. But it’s not my mother’s fault, she didn’t study in high-class education. What I can do is doing my best to explain the things I understand to her.

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  53. A9721150陳培軍 Avatar
    A9721150陳培軍

    Actually, I don’t care about to being misunderstood.
    I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about meself for anyone.
    If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend.
    Two week ago, in my Cost Accounting class.
    The teacher demands us to computed some question.
    Cause I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college.
    I knew how to got the answer quickly.
    When I was done with the question.I think “Maybe I can take some rest now”, so I closed my eyes.
    At the moment, I felt something closed to me.
    When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “if you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone. she is aimed me. but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood. Then, I say nothing, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  54. A9721150陳培軍 Avatar
    A9721150陳培軍

    Actually, I don’t care about to being misunderstood.
    I know who I am, and I don’t need to explain about meself for anyone.
    If someone make me in misunderstanding, the person certainly not my intimate friend.
    Two week ago, in my Cost Accounting class.
    The teacher demands us to computed some question.
    Cause I have learned it when I’m in the five-year junior college.
    I knew how to got the answer quickly.
    When I was done with the question.I think “Maybe I can take some rest now”, so I closed my eyes.
    At the moment, I felt something closed to me.
    When I open my eyes, the teacher looked at me, and say “If you do nothing ,and you’ll never acquire it” with her microphone.
    She is aimed me. but I know I’m done and she is made me in misunderstood.
    Then, I say nothing, just close my eyes again, and derided she was a fool in my mind.

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  55. A9927100章巧穎 Avatar
    A9927100章巧穎

    When I was a senior high school student, I had quarrel with my best friend. We didn’t talk to each other for many weeks. On the grounds that we didn’t explain to each other, we had misunderstanding. One day, I talked to her first. Finally, both of us realized how stupid we were. We should have talked before. From this event, I think that communication is very important.

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  56. a98277122 楊家龍 Avatar
    a98277122 楊家龍

    If someone misunderstanding or slander me. I think I won’t angry first. I will found the ture what he/she will misunderstanding or slander me. I will talk to them, why you misunderstanding or slander me. If it really is my wrong I will say sorry. But if it really not my wrong I wll let he/she know the true and forgive he/she…

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  57. A9927014翁晨華 Avatar
    A9927014翁晨華

    The feelings of being misunderstand were unhappy and uncomfortable. I can’t give an example because I seldom keep it in mind. And I think communication is the best way to solve the problem because it is important to let other people to understand what you think about or how you think about. Being Misunderstood always need an explain to solve it.

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  58. A9927086顏培芳 Avatar
    A9927086顏培芳

    Um… When I was an elementary school student, my mom was very severe to me. One day, I was go home late that I see my mom was angry and she misunderstanding me to go to play games with my friends she didn’t believe me is help my teacher . I was very sad, but my dad believe me, And he told my mom I really help my teacher because teacher was call my home want to thanks me.

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  59. A9827135 馬思婷 Avatar
    A9827135 馬思婷

    Being misunderstood is a frequent occurrence around the world; it’s probably the main source of arguments and disagreements. Recently I have personally not had any disagreements worth writing about but the most common misunderstanding people portray from first impressions of me is from my body language and tone in voice. If I meet new people, they have no idea how lazy of a person I am, thus they read my body language as “I am not interested in becoming their friend”, when really I would love to be your friend. Another misconception others perceive is the tone in my voice. First others get the feeling that I’m rude and in considerate, when really I am just being sarcastic; I can’t help it sarcasm is my second language.

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  60. a9927064曾水德 Avatar
    a9927064曾水德

    When I was a senior high school student.One of my best friends was two timeing to his boyfriend.Her boyfriend was my friend,too.Actually i knew my best friend was not good.But i don’t tell her boyfriend.After when he knew that,he was very hate me and didn’t want to talk with me anymore.After that time he always slander on me.From that time,i keep quiet.I don’t to say anything.

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  61. A9927026 黃燕妮 Avatar
    A9927026 黃燕妮

    I still remember when I was a junior high student, there was an exam. All of my friends and me were prepared it for a long time. After the exam my teacher thought I was cheeting with my friend because both of us got the same grade. I was very angry that my teacher misunderstanded me, even I had explain the situation she still didn’t believe me.

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  62. A9927111林庭妤 Avatar
    A9927111林庭妤

    My first time to be misunderstood was in my senior high.My friend told me a secret that she liked someone.Unfortunately,another boy that was my good friend heard the story and told other people.She thought that I told to other guys that secret and said she wanted to broke up with me.
    I explanded to her many times but she didn’t believe at all.Finally I had no idea so I told that boy about this happening.After he heard it,he said that he can solve the condition.
    Next day,she found me and apologize.

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  63. A9927015林哲伃 Avatar
    A9927015林哲伃

    When I was a senior high school,I was misunderstood by my bestfriend.she said that I was always focus on the other friend and ignored her.I didn’t mean that.Because of this thing,she cried out loud.I was shocked by this situation.After a long quiet period,we talked to each other about the feeling and solved the problem.Our friendship became stronger and stronger.

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  64. A9927111林庭妤 Avatar
    A9927111林庭妤

    My first time to be misunderstood was in my senior high.
    My best friend told me something that she liked someone who also our friend.Unfortunately,a boy heard the news and told to that boy.
    When my best friend knew this,she asked me whether I did that.I explanded to her many times but she didn’t believe it at all.She even said that she wanted to broke up with me.
    I found out who told the news and asked him to help me.
    Finally, she apologize to me and we became good friends again.

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  65. A9927089楊斯任 Avatar
    A9927089楊斯任

    The event was happened when I was study in the army school in Kaoshiung.My officer is a serious and self-center person so that he always understanded me or my friends and trembled with anger.But,as a student in army school,we have no idea but to accept all the unreasonable things.

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  66. A9827133黎子謙 Avatar
    A9827133黎子謙

    When I was in senior high school, my friend once told me that I was a little stingy. But I think I am not, I am just thrifty, not spending much money on commoditie
    s. Maybe I should treat him a meal, and he would cea
    se saying that.

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  67. A9927075ㄏ胡榮庭 Avatar
    A9927075ㄏ胡榮庭

    Once I couldn’t found my money and I thought it was my brother who took my money. One day afternoon when I was reading a book, I suddenly found that I put the money inside the book but I totally forgot. That means I misunderstood my younger brother, but it’s already two months later. I felt very guilty so I treat my brother McDonalds.

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  68. A9927082 陳昱樺 Avatar
    A9927082 陳昱樺

    When I was a senior high school student. I like dance very much so I spend a lot of time to dance.But when I was in third grade,I thought I should spend more time to study and paid more attention in my schoolwork so I told my mother that I want to go to library after school to study.But she thought I was found a excuse to go to play or dance with my friend.I was very sad and dejected first.I reflected on myself.I made up my mind,I wanted to prove myself and showed my determination then my mother will believed me and supported my decision.

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  69. 胡榮庭 a9927075 Avatar
    胡榮庭 a9927075

    Once I couldn’t found my money and I thought it was my brother who took my money. One day afternoon when I was reading a book, I suddenly found that I put the money inside the book but I totally forgot. That means I misunderstood my younger brother, but it’s already two months later. I felt very guilty so I treat my brother McDonalds.

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  70. 胡榮庭 a9927075 Avatar
    胡榮庭 a9927075

    Once I couldn’t found my money and I thought it was my brother who took my money. One day afternoon when I was reading a book, I suddenly found that I put the money inside the book but I totally forgot. That means I misunderstood my younger brother, but it’s already two months later. I felt very guilty so I treat my brother McDonalds.

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  71. A9927101何家宜 Avatar
    A9927101何家宜

    Few month ago I thought my friend was saying sth bad behind me, that really makes me angry. So I had a argue with my friend. But few days later another my friend told me that its not my friends fult but someone is trying to twist us. I felt very sorry about that and do my best try to rebuilt our friendship. Fortunately that my friend forgive me and we become even better than before.

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  72. A9927053沈柏宏 Avatar
    A9927053沈柏宏

    umm…I remember the last time was at my high school. It realy hurts me a lot because I made fun with my best friend. and he did’t regard it as a joke.
    We don’t speak to each other for about 3 months.

    I think, some words we might regard it as a funny joke but, it sometimes become a disaster if misunderstanding happens.

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  73. A9927075胡榮庭 Avatar
    A9927075胡榮庭

    Once I couldn’t found my money and I thought it was my brother who took my money, and I blamed him harshly. One day when I was reading my book, I found it surprisely that I put the money inside the book. That means I misunderstood my brother, but it’s already two months later. I felt very guilty so I treat my brother McDonalds.

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  74. A9927018鄭永浩 Avatar
    A9927018鄭永浩

    When I was in elementary school. I fight with my friend.
    Because he misunderstood me.Someone told him that I put a garbage in his bag. He came to me with an angrily face.I tried to explain but he didn’t listen to it. We fight and of course we get punished. We apologize to each other. That was a childish experience.In the situation that someone misuderstand you is very terrible.

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  75. A9927040詹浩昀 Avatar
    A9927040詹浩昀

    When I make new friends, the most thing I afraid is choosing the wrong one. I hate the feelings of being betray. I need some friends that I can trust and I can share my feelings to them. That’s very important to me!

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  76. A9927037林孟璇 Avatar
    A9927037林孟璇

    In the senior high, I was planning to give my best friend a surprise on her birthday. I pretended that I forgot her birthday, and had a quarrel with she before the her birthday. I didn’t talk to her until her birthday. After I said happy birthday to her, she finally felt relax.

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  77. N9727058 陳家緯 Avatar
    N9727058 陳家緯

    There will be many slanders surround with you, you live in this world. We don’t know who the real mind is forever. Perhaps you were friend, but you were enemy in the next second. I met several times before and I pick one of the instances for you. Although I think the reason to cause the relationship broken with my friend is just a misunderstanding, he though it’s a big disaster. The story is very short and it started on a word. When I was senior high wanted to concentrate on my Chinese class, the man we were friend turned his head and wanted to chat with me. I wasn’t angry and told him softly “Could you turn your head back? I want to concentrate.” And then, a big thing was happened. He didn’t talk with me. I don’t know why and I haven’t asked him the reason. He started to tell everyone the secrets I told him and slandered my reputation. Although I was angry and baffling on the beginning, I think just let it go because the mouth isn’t my and I couldn’t control it. Eventually, everyone knows me knows his mouth is full with nonsense and no one believes him. Briefly, rumor is produced by people, but don’t believe it. If you want to know the truth, you have to find it out yourself.

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  78. A9927110莊佳敏 Avatar
    A9927110莊佳敏

    I was misunderstood by my classmate when was a junior high student because her was jealous.She asked me to help her send a boy studying in next class a love letter,and I promised.But there was something wrong,the boy tought I was the writter.My classmate didn’t talk to me later,so I have to explain the story to the boy.Finally,she found somethhing misunderstanding and talked to me again.
    I felt confused and anxious in the beginnig,however I knew keeping calm down to tell the real detail was impotant fo me.

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  79. A9927057欒斐先 Avatar
    A9927057欒斐先

    When I first came to Taiwan, my chinese was very poor, I often misunderstand things, and made lots of jokes, It was really embarrassing.

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  80. A9927059林宜蓁 Avatar
    A9927059林宜蓁

    The misunderstanding was happen in few weeks ago. In that lesson ,professor called my name to answer the question. I didn’t answer it quickly. I am just nervouse. She thought that I am not focus on her lesson. I could not said anything. That feeling wasn’t good. I didn’t explain to teacher. I thing just let it go.

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  81. A9927068林彥孜 Avatar
    A9927068林彥孜

    The feelings of being misunderstand were sad and uncomfortable.When I was a senior high student,My friend does not to talk with me.Because I crack a joke to him,I don’t know it will hurt him.I have no intention of this.After this thing,we don’t to talk to each other.I attempted to say”Let’s stop keeping silent to each other, ok?”But not working.I really sorry to him and I feel very sorrowful.We becomeed common friend after.
    Not any more to be familiar like the past.

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  82. A9927038范怡萍 Avatar
    A9927038范怡萍

    The experiences of being misunderstand were bad. I don’t get it why so many people think of others without thinking. They just followed the rumor, and that makes me feel angry. The last time i was misunderstood was happened in my high school year. There are some disagreements between me and the other classmate and he try to let everybody hate me. Since that, I was suffered from so many bad things. Although I was depressed, I didn’t cry in front of the classmates who were treat me badly. I just go on with my live, encouraging myself to be brave. It is hard for me to ignore those bad things, but I have no choice. I know I must be overcome the difficulty.

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  83. A9927088 馮凱鈴 Avatar
    A9927088 馮凱鈴

    When I was a junior high student, I studied so hard, but I still didn’t get well in some subjects. My relatives blamed me, and I didn’t feel good. Then, I chose to not pay attention to the others to say. I only do my best no matter how difficult is.

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  84. A9727142 劉琇綺 Avatar
    A9727142 劉琇綺

    Living in this world, people have to learn to cope with every thing. Sometimes, we’ll face a difficult situation, that’s a chance to practice solving problems. I had been slandered and misunderstanding by my best friend, I feel so sad and depressed. At first, I thought my method may be good to them; however, I was wrong. They didn’t get along well, even more, they had an argument. I’m so sad and feel sorry. I said to her I was wrong, but I really want you happy. Maybe my behavior was wrong. After I confessed these to her, she considered. Then our relationship returned as I called her. She said sorry to me too. And also she told me, if she was I, she may do the same thing to avoid starting a quarrel. I am so happy we are back in good relationship now.

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  85. A9927070張俐寧 Avatar
    A9927070張俐寧

    I think this kind of things are really annoying and hard to get rid of.But when time flies,maybe we will know it better no matter the heart of people or the event that happened
    before.It is hard to follow this principal— To see is to believe when every one discuss the same thing as it is really happened.

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  86. A9927016 Avatar
    A9927016

    The most unbearable thing is something you didn’t do it but others think you’ve to charge it .In the senior high school of the first semester ,it’s a Chinese class and we had a small test .I did’nt pay attention to my teacher carefully when she said how to mark the test. I marked my classmate ‘s score quickly then I felt I had bad luck at that moment .Unfortunately,my teacer asked me why I cheat in this test. I was so nervoous that I explained unclearly .My teacher considered me that it’s an excuse .Besides,she told me that I should be punished by school.After class,I burst out crying.
    My Chinese teacher called me to come her office.I still crying loudly in the office because I did not do it at all.
    At the end of talking to my teacher, she did’nt tell the school what I did.But I still feel that she did’nt believe me.In order to prove me I’m innocent ,I study very hard in this subject.Finally,I got the good grades on the final test.Then I thought my teacher really believed me .It’s a bad experince i’ve ever had.But it teach me a good lesson “Pay attention to your teachers whatever ther say”

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  87. A9927017林敏 Avatar
    A9927017林敏

    I believe that everybody has this experience that were misunderstood or slander, when I was a senior high school student, one day I just talk with a boy but her girlfriend was very angry and shouted at me. From now on we never talk until we graduate, so I think how no matter the others did say you, maintain your heart, to do my own!

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  88. A9927077杜書宇 Avatar
    A9927077杜書宇

    When I was in high school, we had a volleyball game. All of the students needed to play the game. In order to win the champion, we kept practicing every weekend. Sometimes I needed to go to the cram school so I didn’t go to practice. Some of my teammates were misunderstood me. I felt miserable and anxious. I tried to let my teammates understood my situation. All of tem could realized me.

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  89. A9927010許愷庭 Avatar
    A9927010許愷庭

    When I was a senior high school student,my friend misunderstood what I wanted to told her.She ignored me a whole week, and I tried to communicate with her expression of what I mean. Finally I successed, I was very happy, and it also let me know everything to be effort into the full, do not let myself regret.

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  90. A9927056林人和 Avatar
    A9927056林人和

    When I was a jenior high school student,my friend misunderstood my means.They thaught I was a bad person because they guessed I always slandered them.First,I am so sad that I didn’t know how to do.My family said you just talking to them and the problem would be ok.Finally,they realized me.I was happy and realized told thm true,they would understand what your means!!

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  91. A9927025黃彥智 Avatar
    A9927025黃彥智

    The misunderstanding was happen in senior high school. My classmate doubted that I criticized her. However, I was very angry with her. Because she didn’t find the true or could consult me, I didn’t talk with her. Because of her misunderstanding, I really dislike her behavior.

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  92. A9927080林佳妏 Avatar
    A9927080林佳妏

    When I in senior high school,my mother had doubted me that I like girls because I always dressed like a boy and my active just like a boy. But I just think it is cool.My mother doubted me for a long time.Finally she asked me and we had a communication.Now my mother know I dress like a boy is just for cool.

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  93. A9927067陳敏兒 Avatar
    A9927067陳敏兒

    I will not believe the rumors which I yet checked all the time.But people often doesn’t like I. I often suffered from other classmates’ misconception when I was junior, just because of a girl, who doesn’t like me, told them something unreal about me.I hope I can always understand others but misunderstand them, or it may hurt their feeling.

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  94. A9727125 李卓瑤 Avatar
    A9727125 李卓瑤

    When i was a secondary school student, my classmate slander on me. i have no idea why thay need to do that. Maybe they doesn’t like, because of i have many male friends. They will slander that i’m a open girl. I can sleep with every man something like that.; But i don’t care because it’s not true. My parents and friends believe me that enought. i didn’t care about their slander.

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  95. A9927020黃翎鈞 Avatar
    A9927020黃翎鈞

    When I was a senior high student,I had to work with my classmates at that time.My mom misunderstood me that I had a boyfriend.
    Whatever I had said, my mom did’t believe me.

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  96. a9827093 沈彤 Avatar
    a9827093 沈彤

    When I was primary school first grade student, I was misunderstanding by my teacher. I set a place where nearby the cabinet. Oneday our teacher found some garbage in cabinet and said that was I did. I said I didn’t do that,however, she don’t trust me. Finally, she puinsh me. I felt very angry about that bad experience.

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