Communication breakdown and miscommunication between husband and wife could be devastating to the marriage, like the tragedy occurring in the lesson of the Warfield family. Chester was a speechless husband, seemingly holding grudges to himself, while Maureen his wife was always complaining (or nagging) about Chester and something else. Chester and Maureen actually never engaged in true communication but only one way interaction. Their marriage could have been rescued if they had done something earlier. If you were Chester or Maureen, what could you do to save your marriage?
TJ Gong
Walking With Him Until I Am Not
Don’t Worry, Be Happy!
80 responses to “Don’t Worry, Be Happy!”
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Life is always full of unpredictable challenges;however,
a person can always look at things happened to you in
a different aspect and you will find a whole new different world. -
In the world,there are full of obstacles,if you confront obstacles,you should deal with it,and do not just complain
.Each obstacle is meaningful,and you will learn a lot from the obstacle.Love yourself,and love your everything,the world is beautiful. -
Our world are full of obstacles,when we confront obstacles,we should be more positive,and you will learn a lot from dealing with obstacles.
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People who are not sound in body but still go on their lives optimistically can be models for us. I am touched by their bravery and faith. When we confront distress, we can think about those people which can make us feel how lucky we are.
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Nick is a disable person. Although he doesn’t have legs, arms, he has a positive thinking. He can do everythings by himself. He only thinks what he do have, he know how to be thankful in everythings. He knows every one has their own value to live. Have a beautiful heart and think in a positive way is very important. I got encourage in this short video. Everything is possible, just try our best and face all situations. Smile every day, every moment in your life. Just like Nick! He has a gorgeous life.
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Nick’s story has touched many people. Although he is handicapped,he is still able to do what the normal people can do. He makes his life meaningful and valuable. Everyone has a purpose of life. We just need to “forget those things which are behind, and reach forth unto those things which are before”
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” Handicapped ” is not the main point in his life , he tell us what are the most crucial things to our life ,”when you keep on concentrating of the things what you wish to have or didn’t have , then you soon that forget what you do have . “
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I was touched by his story. The man who has a disable body is braver than most people with sound body. This story tells us to appreciate what we have now. Lots of people are always tracing those unactual things but to forget they already in a wonderful life. We shall look ourselve’s deeply. We should treasure what we’ve got.
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I read his book at the bookstore before. He is really a optimistic person that I have ever seen. People always care about what they don’t have, but Nick just care about what he has and be really appreciative. His courage is an example to all of us.
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His story encourages me very much.Because he is a very brave man.Though he is confronted with many tough difficulties,he is still take these obstacles easily.He tell us we are all perfect,and teach us never give up and give ourselves a try!
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I am very proud of him.He doesn’t care about how people to see him.Although,he is a disable person,he still optimistic to live his life. I had read another person like he on the book,she is a girl.She only has one leg but she can drive a car,cook….etc.She almost like the general person.When I saw the book and flim,I was touchable. They are brave people on the world.
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To face a big change is very difficult, it needs a big courage; moreover, the man lives optimistically. He is without limbs but he can do anything the ordinary people can do. He lives hard for himself but we live hard maybe for money, parents, or work. Sometimes, meeting the difficult, we want to evade but he is brave to face. I think if I were him, I wouldn’t live optimistically like him. From his example, I learn there is no obstacle all over the world, as long as you decide to do.
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I have posted this vedio on my facebook before because that I think it is worthy to know that valuable person who fight to live with obstacles. Many people and me, included. We live but always don’t satisfy with what we have and complain everything in our life. However, if we understand how lucky or silly we are by this vedio, and we may know what the happiness is.
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I am happy becauce I have a wonderful body.His story I have heard before.Just always be happy and do not think our life is very terrible.His life was more difficult than our life but he never gave up and thaught he could do every thing!!He was touching me a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!
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When we encounter some difficulties, we may think we must be the most unfortunate person in the world.But we should not think so,we do not have the benifits of thinking about it.And we should treasure the things that we own, then we will have a better life.
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We always think that”life is not good enough”,but there are still lots of people lives in miserable.I think we should enjoy our life and not complaim about our”unlucky”because we are lucky enough.Life still have beautiful things that are waiting for us,I think we only need to enjoy it!
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In the world, there are many people who work hard to live, maybe they always complains, But some people live very hard too, they are very happy. In our life, many things will be happened, no one knows what will happen in the next second, instead of complaining about or angry, as open our mind, living out of the sky.
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I think he is really brave and confident.If I were him, I would’nt have such promising thinking.I would be so upset that I could die. His life story really touched my chord.Also, he set a good example for people who missed the motive in their lives.
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In the word, everyone have worth to to exist. And, don’t think you are a bad person that everyone can have smile and caught well-being . If you believe you are a happy person and didn’t think to be short of anything. Because you have anything than everyone.
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Whether you always complain yourself why you are not good enough or you always have negative emotional or not. This story tell us that we always look bright side on our life. Because Nick don’t give up himself. Although he have not limbs, he still insist that he can do everything. Such as playing basketball or going swimming and so on. I am very praise “NICK”.
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Whether you always complain yourself why you are not good enough or you always have negative on your life or not. This story tell us that we should look bright side on our life. Because Nick never gives up himself. Although Nick has not limbs, he still believes that he can do everything. Such as playing basketball or going swimming and so on. I have no choice but to praise “NICK”.
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Everyone does have some defects after being born on the world. Life won’t become more colorful or perfect even if you were a genius or superman.Beautiful life is not constructed on what you have but depands on how you live you own life.You can’t decide how longth your life is , but expand it and fullfill it. Attitude decide what your life is.
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In spite of sometimes our life will have more setback,but when i watched this video, I think i shouldn’t depressed.There are too many person face the big accident serious than mine.And they arn’t feel down and snap out of it.I think i need to learn it
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In spite of sometimes our life will have more setback,but when i watched this video, I think i shouldn’t depressed.There are too many person face the big accident serious than mine.And they arn’t feel down and snap out of it.I think i need to learn it.
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I have known him on the facebook. When I first saw this video, I cried. How courage the man is? He is very positive to face his life that is not perfect. Who’s life is perfect? He just got a bigger challenge than other people. We should view him as a great model, we shouldn’t give up easily.
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Nick Vujicic, who has no arms and legs, is an optimistic person. We all know that without arms and legs, it could be difficult for those who has arms and legs to survive. Actually it’s no different between Nick and us. We all have our life goal to achieve, and even his is disability. It doesn’t become his obstacle. Everything has both sides, it depends on with you think.
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Everyone has his predicament. Maybe we wil say his situation worse than us, but he use another positive attitude to face it. I respect him. We can learn optimistic attitude from him.
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i was deeply touch by Nick’s video when I first time saw it .How can a people face bravely everything that he had lost. I cherish what i have more than before.
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Maybe we can read his book how and why he broke through the hard and dark time in the his live. It will make us know how valuable thing we have had.
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I think some people had disabled when she/he was bron or happened when they grew up.
If you don’t alway be pessimistic and look your wonderful future your life will be more colorful.
Your friends, parentd, and all people can lend you a hand when you facing challenges.Don’t worry that no one can help you because we are all family. -
There are some obstacles in our way.When we have the trouble,we should’t run away from the reality but to challenge it..The more difficulty you face ,the better way you solve.Thinking about what to create a meaningful life is useful than complaining about what you have lost.Just do it and give it a try.
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Life is happy, life is hard; life is full of smiles and tears.
Every things in our lives is indispensable, no matter they are rainbow or storm.
It’s difficult for people to thank for what they really have, because we always want some things we don’t have.
We all know that we should treasure that around us, but knowing and doing are two things! So we still have a lot of things to learn and think more about it. -
There must be something that we can’t make decision. We can’t choose where we born, what we look like, which kinds of families we have, and so on. We can only accept, embrace, change our attitude, and find a better way to response.
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The film is inspiring and encouraging. After watching this film, I feel ashamed of myself because I often complain when things are not the way I want. When I encounter difficulties, the first thing comes into my mind is always to give up. However, Nick is no the case. He is positive and grateful no matter what had happened in his life. His extraordinary courage and belief toward life touch my heart deeply.
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I am touched by this video. I can’t imagine that if I don’t have my arms and legs since I was born. However, Nick doesn’t need the sympathy of anyone. He lives happier, more active than other people. He can do so many things which I can’t do. Actually, I can’t swim. But he can. And does very well. Although,he doesn’t have legs or feet,he can play the soccer. I admire him so
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I was deeply moved by this video.Although he is physically challenged,however,he didn’t give up.Instead,he is very optimistic,and always try to reach his goal.We should regard Nick as a model,and learn his attitudes.
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Although Nick can not have a completelimbs like normal person, but his heart is full. He did not give up everything just because his physical defects He is brave to accept and then create hope and possibility. When you complain about your life is miserable , just think that there are more people live hader than you, you are lucky! Physical disabilitiescan not mean anything.With mental health, positive thinking is which to support you to live on the world.It’sthe most courageous part of you.
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Nick’s story is really touched me. I’ve seen this total vedio at junior hight, I admire his courage very much. How could a physically disable person lives so happy and optimistic! His story let me felt that we must have a wide heart to face any challenge and live in a happy life.
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Nick is a great person. Despite of the fact that he is physically challenged he still thinks life is full of happiness. Instead of being pessimistic, he is an optimistic guy. Not everyone has the faith like him!
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We really should learn how to appreciate our life and to treasure what we have, and keep that in mind.
We can go to school, we don’t have to worry about our next meal, we have a place to live, and we even can go to the theatre for a movie!Stop complaining, start appreciating!
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In our life,we will meet a lot of problem.You may feel upset or even have many negative thinking. If you can face those those problem, those problem can help you grow your mind and become a treasure experience in your life.
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In our lifetime, there has many pleasures, but there has many dufficulties as well. Sometimes we think we cannot go through the perplexities at the moment; however, as we look back those times few years latter, things had already passed, and that’s how life is. We now continually confront the new challenges and again we will overcome those hard tasks.
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As the saying goes:“God closes a leaf of window for you, he will open another leaf of window for you.”, the meaning do not limit in own microcosm, so long as opens wide the heart, outside can discover a happier world. In the real life, in our heart also has a secret garden. A blade of grass not fresh garden you so long as have poured into the joyful springhead originally, it will have the change.
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I think he is an amazing person after I watch this video.In our life,we sometimes envy others.If you get into trouble you maybe so disappointed.But remember that all people are special.We are different but particular from each other.Life will be much happier if you open your mind.
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I think that Nick is very brave and happy-natured. I also admire his attitude of his paralysis. When I saw his story in class first time, I was very touched. Even though he can’t act like any other people, he try hard to do that. I hope that I can be as brave as he.
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I feel pity on Nick, but I admire him more. He is very charming though he has physical disablement. After watching his film, I felt how lucky I am. I should treasure everything I have, because the world is beautiful and so is life.
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I think Nick Vujicic who is in the documentary film has the courage that general people don’t have. He is so brave when he faces his imperfection on his body. General speaking, if a person is faced with such a situation, he or she will be very sorrowful about this, but Nick did’t. In contrast, he managed to enjoy his life, making hiself like normal people. His disability did’t affect him to look on the dark side of life. So I think he is really a brave man.
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I watched this story many years ago,and I felt very touching then.This story is not only touching but also inspiring,and makes us more cherish what we had have.
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If I were Chester or Maureen,when I found that our marriage had deteriorated, in the beginning I would try to communicate with my wife or husband to find out the reason. If this way couldn’t solve our problem, the worst way I will take is divorcing.No matter what outcome of this marriage, I won’t suicide just like Chester.
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If i were Chester,I would not commit suicide.Because if you died,you will lose everything,even the freedom he pursue for.It’s better to desperatefor a while if they can tolerant each other any more.maybe as the time passed by,the relationship between both them would improve.
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I think this short film touch my heart deeply. It’s impossible smoothly all the time in our life, therefore you have to meet the challenge and overcome it. but I think the most important thing is “You shouldn’t think how much you lost. On the contrary, you have to think how much you have!”and you will be happy, because you start learning how to treasure. So don’t upset for anything, as the saying says that he who has hope has everything!
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I think that we need to learn the toleration, communication, coordination. We have to face the problems and communicate with each other. We would review our live mode. Where is the problem and how we need to improve？Think of each other’s advantage and disadvantage. I think that the problem will be solved soon.
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be honest with each other
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Behind every dark cloud is a sliver ring. Nick is the best proof of this proverb. Many people lost all confidence after confronting obstacles. However, learning experience from obstacles is the most treasure in life. It enable to have me become a happy, confident and independent individual.
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In Nick story is deeply touching of me.i think i am so lucky. i am a heavy person but i don’t have his brave and confidance, always think i cannot do it, but he tell me nothing cannot do it and don’t give up.
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In Nick’s story, I think I learned many things from it. And I understand that I am a very luck person. I have a great environment to do whatever I want. Some times I may get upset, but after I think the story of Nick, I get the power again!
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This story is touching me. He is very brave. Many people are very lucky, they are robust, but they didn’t treasure their live. When they have some difficulty, they didn’t know how to handle. They will suicide.
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We should spend more time nuderstanding each other! If we do not understand each other, we could have misunderstanding all the time. So fights will be happened, and two people would sparate in the end.
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Nick is a disable but he still has a positive and courageous attitude.He never give up his life. I think I learned many things from it. I also admire his attitude.I should brave to accept and to solve difficult problem.
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I think he is the good model for everyone who want to give up.Although he is a disable person, but he always keep a optimistic attitude about his life.There is nothing we should give up.
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Nick is so brave. If I were him, I would not be so cheerful. He gave us a positive attitude. And never say you can’t. Always try everything that you are interested in. He is a person that make everyone knows there is nothing impossible.
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If I were Maureen.I would give my housband more spaces.And most important is do not give so much pressure to him.Let he do whatever he like,trying to talk with him,trying to undertand what he want. When we encountered difficult,do not be engry first is the best solution.
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I think we should be more positive like Nick. Although he is a disable man. He still makes his life better. He tries everything that everyone thinks it is impossible. But he did it. He makes everything becomes possible. Never say ” I can’t.”
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If I were Maureen,I would give my houseband more spaces to him.Trying to understand what he want to do and what he think.Do not to put many pressure on him,usually tlaking with he to keep our marriage wonderful.
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I saw this clip before, maybe when I was a junior high school student? Whatever. But I still remember when teacher played the vidio clip, many of us cried. Every sentence he told make me feel very warm. How does a man like Nick can be so happy, but I have almost everything I want is always complain something, even I havn’t been any “storm of the life”! Maybe is because I am not thankfull? Maybe? I should learn how to love myself and everything around me. And when I feel frustrated, I can watch this clip.
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If I were them, I will have a very serious talk to express the feeling to each other and will solve the problems as soon as possible. One man is not easy to meet another man, especially get married. So, seize the day.
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If I were Chester or Maureen, I would do my best to let the other know that he is really important to me. I would try to find what probloms happened between our marriage. Communicate is necessary in our live. Telling what you are thinking about and you’ll find the problem is not really difficult to solve.
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Two words. Marriage counseling.
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I would tell what i am thinking and express to each other that we can know how to solve the problem together.
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Misunderstanding always appear in our life. If I have the same situation, the first thing that I will do is let my couple what I really want to express after we are calm down. Then, I believe that the problem will be solved.
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No one can predict future no matter how rich you are. If I were Maureen, I might tried to chat with my husband until he was willing to have a heart-to-heart talk after all. Never give up without trying.
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If i am maureen, i will try to keep my mouth shut! It may help Chester to release pressure ,and feel the differences in life. When he feels less pressure, he may be willing to communicate with me.
If Chester has no responds, I think I will get divorced.
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After knowing their living of difficulties, their experiences, and when they faced with their handicaps with optimistic, I was very admire them.
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If I were them,maybe I will express myself and listen to each other’s thinking,than we can know how to solve the main problem together.
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I have been see this video in summer vacation last year.Although Nick is a disable person but he is very brave to face his imperfection and very optimistic.I think he is a brave and strong man in life.
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His story encourages me very much and i also proud of him. He is a awsome guy.How could a physically disable person lives so happy and optimistic! I will do same thing just like Nick
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I will tell him what I think, if we can deal with the problems, we can stay together much better. But if we can’t, I think we will divorce, and has a better life without him.
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If I were Chester or Maureen, I will try anyway to tell what I am thinking.If we can’t talking to each other ,I can choose another way to tell,maybe write it done in a papper and it in some place that my housband can see.
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If I were Chester or Maureen,I will try anyway to tell what I am thinking.If we can’t talking to each other,I can choose another way to tell ,maybe write it done in a papper and it in some place that my housband.
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I was really touched after reading this short after. because a handicapped person can do so many things, but never complained about his misfortune. but now there are a lot of people complain about their life-long is not good, or even To commit suicide.
TJ Gong 
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