TJ Gong
Walking With Him Until I Am Not
Crippled by Indulgence
20 responses to “Crippled by Indulgence”
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I think I sometimes crippled by speaking in front of publics. I live in an environment which lacks of practicing speaking in front of public. I will feel nervous when I need to talk in front of publics. I think because I lack of practicing speaking. It is hard to cover my nervous and talk fluently. It causes me can not express my feeling even though I am well-prepared.
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I love to buy any kinds of bags, especially the brand called Play Boy. The logo is a rabbit, and I think it’s cute and awsome. Because it has different kinds of metrial to make special bags. Therefore, every time I go shopping, I always want to purchase a bag. But, now I learn how to control my desire and how to save my money, I won’t waste any money and take it very seriously.
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I always crippled by my low efficiency. I always say that I can’t prepare for my final exams well because there are too many reports I have to do first so that I have not enough time to study for my final exams. However, I discover that actually I have lots of time can prepare reports and study but I can’t use time well. Therefore, I begin to plan my daily schedual and try to adjust my time. Now I have already finished most of my reports and I can begin to study for final exams.
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My topic is about “Crippled by Excuse”. Whenever I do not want to go to school, I would request my friend to tell the teacher by a ridiculous excuse. For example, I would say “I felt unconfortable; therefore, I couldn’t go to school today.” I think this kind of behaviors shouldn’t be happened; therefore, I seldom do such a behavior. However, I’m also have the time which felt lazy and did not want to go to school. At that time, I would persuade myself to try my best to overcome myself. Whenever I have such a thinking, the sense of lazy would be reduced.
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Lazy is always my main shortcoming. No matter it’s about the weather or go to school or not, there are always influenced me deeply. If my friend asks going out with them, but I will say no when the weather is cold or raining, and I am also lazy of going out. Or if I have a class at 8:10, sometimes I will feel vey lazy of waking up and going to school. If I have a date with my boyfriend, I am lazy to meet my boyfriend and ask him to pick me up very often. I’ve already known that this shortcoming is a fatal mistake for me, but I am still “lazy” about changing, I think I need to face this problem seriously.
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Crippled by kindness
My weakness is too kind to tell the truth. In other words, if my friends do things that I don’t like and annoying me, I were not said”You’re annoying me. ” and revising his/her mistakes. Because I feel if I say it out, they were felt sad or uncomfortable. It means I hurt their mind. I don’t like this feeling, which I say what think that hurt them. But I am often mad inside my mind. I’m angry because they annoying me. As a result, that is my fault. I don’t say to them my feeling. Therefore, I often think too much in the moment.
However, I have to be brave to say my feeling out is good for me. I can’t too kind to say truth. Otherwise, they don’t understand what my thought. I like say my feeling out straight. Because I can candid with friends. Now, I will be courage to say what my feeling. -
Crippled by overcome the new thing.
I found I have a new shortcoming,that is I can not overcome the difficulites.For examples,I have changed two jobs recently,because I am a new learner.I have to learn a lot of things they give it to me.But actually, I can’t absorb them too quickly,so I felt my brain explode.I reall frustrated about it.Orginly, I think I can accept any kind of challenges, but now I have to suspect myself that I have ability or not. -
Crippled by lack of self-confident
I think I am a person who don’t have self-confident. When I do something, I always doubt myself whether I can’t make it or not. I always need someone to support me, and tell me” Don’t worry, you can make it.” What if there’s nobody stand behind me…..? I know I have to be more independent and be have more self-confident. I’m trying now… -
Crippled by emotional
I always cannot control my mood, I admire people how can control their own mood. Even though they encounter bad treat or some behavior they cannot accept, they can also have good react at that things. I hope I can get rid of emotional. I should try to even-tempered and good-humored with anyone. And have well control in my bad temper. -
Crippled by hyperactive:
I think I am too hyperactive. I am so talkative that it is easy to notice I have a bad mood. Sometimes I cannot even stop when I am on a serious occasion. Some people think why I can always be so energetic and never feel tired. The reason is I want everyone to feel happy around me. So I am a kind of person that likes pressing one’s feelings. It is not good because it is hard for others to understand the real you! I have to learn how to express my own feelings properly. -
Crippled by laziness:
I think I’m so lazy that probably won’t get married in the future ’cause no one would want a indolent wife. If I am free for a whole day, I think I would sleep for all day long and won’t want to leave my bed unless I have to go to the restroom. And I think it’s not good because after I start my work career that the employers would definately think I don’t have a right attitude and won’t hire me to work for them. I really have to quit this addiction. -
I’m not a lazy person. I just sometimes want to relax or take a break for a while. But I find out that is always delay the important things such as my report, my homework and my housework! Sometimes there only cost me about 10 minutes to do a thing, but I just don’t want to do at that time. I don’t know why, I couldn’t figure out the reason. What I can change is my mind, I should be much more positive than I was.
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*crippled by pessimism—I often burst out tears when I was just a liite girl. Now I still have nothing change although I’m alreadya twenty years old girl. I know the reason is I’m too pessimistic. I put everything in the same important place, no matter is my family, friends or even my lover. But it’s really hard to take care for each part of that. so I often feel fraustrated about this and will think everything is getting wrost and worst. Every time I have this feelings I can not find out the solution by my self, all the things I can do is cry the whole night.I know my pessimism will heart myself and also my friends, so now I will try hard to change my heart and try to be a happy person.
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Crippled by Hesitation
Every time I make decisions, I cost too much time on hesitation. I hesitate because I consider too much. Maybe some people may think it’s thoughtful, but I really don’t want to waste my time on hesitation. The way to change this situation is that think simple. Maybe just think I want to do it or not. Treat things in more simple way, in that case I can spend less time on making a decision. -
I think I’m crippled by impatience. I don’t like to wait, and I don’t like to say something twice. Actually, I’ve tried to learn to be patient,however, everytime I heard the baby cring, I still want to get crazy. Maybe the best way to make me change is being a mother.
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Crippled by impatience.
I am easily to lose patience when I doing some difficult things. I always give up when there comes difficulties. I often lose my temper when my students being naughty. I think the best way is to spend more time to being with kids and be patient to them. The most importantly, treat them well. -
I’m crippled by too emotional, my mom always reminds me do not be so emotional. I’ve tried not be affected by my emotion, but when I feel sad or angry , it’s quite hard to hide them away. Even though I stop my negative emotions, I still spent a long time to feel better. So, I use to ask advices from my good friends and my family, they can comfort me and give me the power to continue.
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Crippled by laziness
Laziness extinguishes people’s passion. I had ever done 60 pushups regularly a day and it maintained for a long time. Since I was encountered the surgery of my nose everything was different. In the beginning, I stopped for my nose recovery but no one knows after a month that is just such an excuse. The muscles which had shaped nearly into perfect were getting worse day by day until one day I begin to do this job again. 30 pushups is such a tough limitation to me. However, it knocks up my mind, laziness not just extinguished my passion but destroy the accomplishments I had ever done before. -
Sometimes, I think I crippled by sensitive.
I like to observe people around me, like my friends, classmates and family. Some times when I see them uhappy, I would ask myself “if i did something bad to them?” “if i make a mistack and make them feel angry or unhappy?”
Sometimes, it’s good for people to be sensitive. But for me, this is kinda painful. Cause I always think that I am the one who makes them down or unhappy. that makes me feel sad all the time. -
“One more minute!” Each time the alarm clock rings, I will think like this. The result of oversleeping is being late to school. It is not just only being late, the worst thing is, my life is in a mess! I can’t finish all the routine and things written in my scheduled book; I delay what I want to do in a day; and I waste my time! My solutions to solve this problem are to sleep and wake up early, put more alarm clocks in every corner in my room, and make up my mind. I hope these three ways can improve my bad habit.
TJ Gong 
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