King Solomon reigned in the nation of Israel for 40 years and the Israelites lived in safety and prosperity. After Solomon died, his son Rehoboan succeeded him as king. The inauguration ceremony took place in Shechem as all Israel gathered to celebrate it. But one man whose name was Jeroboam from Egypt came to King Rehoboam with a request of—making their lives easier under a new king. Jeroboam petitioned the new king to lighten their harsh work under Solomon, “Your father was a hard master. Lighten the harsh labor demands and heavy taxes that your father imposed on us. Then we will be your loyal subjects” (2 Chronicles 10:4). King Rehoboam told Jeroboam and his men came back in three days and then he would decide whether to answer their request.

During the period of three days Rehoboam consulted with the elders who gave advice to his father as well as the young men who had grown up with. He then took the advice from the young men and therefore replied to Jeroboam, “Yes, my father laid heavy burdens on you, but I’m going to make them even heavier” (v. 11)! Realizing that their petition had been rejected Jeroboam and all Israel but Judah left the king and found a new kingdom in the north.

Peer pressure is a common experience that people have had as they grow up; they, particularly young generations, mimic one another or emulate group leaders in order to fit in the group. They take advice from their peers instead of parents or teachers. They believe that friendship is their priority and so the words of a friend are reliable and trustworthy. But the result coming from the ill advice could be harmful and even disastrous.

“My son, obey your father’s commands, and don’t neglect your mother’s instruction” (Proverbs 6:20). Are you seeking advice, young man? Don’t ignore your parents or teachers who oftentimes know what is best for you.